Free to be you and me

In the third grade our class had a movie projector with reels. One kid had a movie projector just like it at home and he always got to load the movie projector for the teacher. I was always really, really jealous even though I didn’t know how to load the projector myself.

This was before the age of videos and the Internet so these “movies” were considered real treats.
But the school didn’t have too many of them and most were real snoozers.

It was also a time when the almost always female teacher would tap only boys in the class to perform the technical feat beyond her of helping the rich kid with the movie theater at home load the projector. Shades of irony hit me here remembering back since the film “Free to Be You and Me” was in large part about breaking down gender stereotypes.

Our teacher who I remember as being very engaging, very educational and fair seemed to think that this one film could drive home messages in a way stronger than any of her 3rd grade lectures. In fact, whenever we took the time to get the “treat” of a film it was likely to be “Free to Be You and Me” again, I guess in case we didn’t get the point the 100 showings before.

This was 1980, the year of the Reagan candidacy when he was trying to unseat Carter and the class took sides with half endlessly repeating the “Jimmy Carter has a way of messing up the USA” slogan. Jimmy Carter didn’t have any snappy chants for 3rd graders, maybe this is why he lost.

Today, technology has advanced. The “boys” in classrooms don’t need to assist teachers with streaming videos or hitting play on the DVD players. But I don’t know if “Free to Be You and Me” or for that matter a film like it would be shown.

In many ways even allowing for the idea that we are all “free to be you and me” seems more radical now than then.

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2012: Year of Revolution

One of my clients named 2011 the “Year of Evolution” with the promise that 2012 would be the “Year of Revolution.” While that project may or may not be as Revolutionary as planned, the idea has followed me through 2011 and now that I am close to hitting 2012, I am ready for the Year of Revolution.

Why must the Revolution be now?
Why not continue with evolution?

Towards the end of 2011, two close friends from the past had their children pass away.

- One high school friend’s very young and beautiful daughter passed away from a form of rare liver cancer. obituary
- One second cousin I grew up with had her beautiful, 20-year old son pass away in an accident. obituary

In the past week, I have gone to two more remembrances, this time for two mothers who led long, strong, wonderful lives. At both funerals I had that rare opportunity to step outside of the normal day-to-day madness and reflect on life and meaning. I am still in the process of reflecting and stepping away from the Ebenezer Scrooge peering through the looking glass (seeing “now as though through a mirror dimly”) at other past worlds and experiences.
I, too, feel “I will not be the (wo)man I was.”

Sadly, I don’t have everything as figured out as I might and certainly don’t have Scrooge’s clarity . . . for next steps.

What evolved in 2011?
I entered 2011 giving up fast food (other than Subway & Little Caesar’s) and soda pop—or any drink that had carbonation. My hope was for immediate weight loss. This didn’t happen. I went on to diet seriously and results were much slower coming that I hoped. I took a break waiting for the local Anytime Fitness to open. It took months and just finally opened a few weeks ago.

I worked very hard through 2011 trying to keep pace with a challenging work schedule, big family responsibilities and owing my dogs more time.

My other resolution for 2011 was to “create.”

As the year progressed, I realized that between one thing and another “create” fell victim to a few hours sleep grabbed here and there.
Creating gave way to producing and then producing some more, putting duct tape here to try to make it to the next task there and repeatedly going back to re-apply new duct tape without any opportunity to permanently fix what was broken.

And with the lack of opportunity to “create” rather than “patch” went finding very much “fun.”

So here we are. 2012 is upon us. Life may be short . . . and it could be one cataclysm away from a period of grievous loss.

It is time to have fun. It is time to revisit the old song, heard so often on TV commercials when I was in Ireland.

“There may be trouble ahead
But while there’s music and moonlight and love and romance
Let’s face the music and dance

Before the fiddlers have fled
Before they ask us to pay the bill and while we still have the chance
Let’s face the music and dance

Soon we’ll be without the moon, humming a different tune and then
There may be teardrops to shed
So while there’s moonlight and music and love and romance
Let’s face the music and dance.

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